What is passive trading?
When most people hear the word passive, they think of something that can be negative. For me, having a passive attitude in trading has been a really positive thing. Some of my best trading days and weeks have been during times when I have a passive attitude in how I enter trades. To better describe this, my thought going into a trading session with a passive attitude is “I might enter a trade, and I might not.” Some of the worst trading days for me are when I wake up thinking “Boy, I can’t wait to get into a trade and pull some pips!”
What I have found is quite fascinating, it is almost as if I take power away from the market, and the Market Makers when I trade passively. Truthfully, that is exactly what happens when you trade more passively and less emotionally. The market makers make their money by fooling retail traders into entering positions, so the more emotionally you trade, the more you become a puppet on a string. The more passively you trade, the less power and control they have over you. It’s a beautiful thing!
After I talked to Steve, and read his blog post, I started to see the bigger picture, and I started to understand what was going on with my trading. At this same time, there was a period of a couple of weeks where I was really busy. I had to travel to California for work, I had a busy schedule each day, and I was starting work at 6AM, so there was really no way for me to trade during session. I almost tried to, I even brought my laptop with me. But I decided that I would take the week off. I was pretty busy the following week also, so I went almost 2 weeks without trading. This turned out to be a really good thing for me.
Taking time off from trading, accompanied with new ideas and a fresh mindset really helped me to turn things around. Does this mean that I’m pulling hundreds of pips a week? Nope. In fact I think that I’m at 18 pips for the week so far, but I’m ok with that. Slow and steady wins the race. The tortoise wins, every time.
I had always heard Rob G. say that whenever he loses two trades in a row, he takes the rest of the week off (I’m pretty sure he said that). I always thought “Why would he take the rest of the week off? Can’t he just start fresh the next day?” I think I’ve learned a good lesson here. Time off can be a powerful thing. If you find yourself spun out in your trading, take a few days or a week off. I’d bet that you come back with a new perspective. Taking a few steps back is a great way to get a better view of whats really happening.
My recent trades
Since this transition I have been doing much better. Once again, I’m not rich, nor am I slaying hundreds of pips but I’m in control and my trading is relaxed. This is such a stark contrast to the cortisol-fueled, greedy, upset, hunched over, anxious, money losing trader that I was a few weeks ago, “gargoyled” over my laptop, hoping and wishing that the market makers would let me have just one little piece of profit. Recently my trading has been much more enjoyable. I am managing my account by keeping a reasonable lot size. I am calm. I sleep in until 5:30 if I want to. I realize that I don’t have to trade. I no longer have to fight myself and make up all sorts of rules because I see the big picture.
My intention in saying all of this is not to boast or sound like I have it all figured out, but to just point out that we often make things a lot harder than they need to be. Sometimes all it takes is a slight change in attitude, or a simple shift in how we view trading to turn things around. I had taken something fun and made it stressful by focusing in the wrong things in my trading, then adding rules and more stress to correct it. That all went away (for now) when I started focusing on taking things slow and keeping things simple.
I encourage anyone who is having a hard time to remember that you have plenty of time to learn to trade (that’s another thing Steve said). Take it easy. It can be challenging but it should also be fun. If you find yourself stressed out, chill. Take a break. (Side note: taking a break helped me a lot, but I think that it is important to note that it wouldn’t have been such a powerful time if it wasn’t for the fact that I got some good advice). With that being said, ask someone for help! Get some advice. Participate and ask questions on the webinar. Read books. Use all of the tools at your disposal. Don’t be greedy. Keep the dangers of the market in perspective. Keep it simple and relaxed. The reason we learn to trade is to take stress out of life, not to add it.